There I was on cloud nine, after a lovely journey back home on PIA, on 8th May, 2023. I was received at the airport by Waliya, my daughter. Then I found out from my friend Sadia that her son Ahmad was visiting from UK, so I invited all my friends for tea on 9th. …
Getting back to normal life after cancer.
This post is all about my fresh new life now. Starting with a big Thank You to my Allah, and my wonderful doctors, and nursing staff. Another big thanks to all my family members, my daughters and my mother for their untiring prayers, and giving me support in every way they could. Same for my …
Stud farm mares & my Dad’s legacy
Over three decades, of my life, I saw my father going to Okara and Sahiwal to look over his stud farm. At first in early eighties, there was Linda – the mare he bought from Austria for his farm. She was a real beauty, and quite large in size. She bore many foal for the …
This post is for those who have been married for ten years or more. Here are points to keep in mind as you manage yourself and your family. Lots of issues do crop up and it is up to you to find ways to strengthen this bond. several ways are suggested, mainly it is to build your awareness of the situation you are in, and the dangers lurking around you and your family. Only then you can do something about it. Be strong and full of energy.
Stress free in a Stressful World
We live in a world today, where we face not only our own stresses of life, but that of all people around us, and even those living across the world. You’ve got to learn how to combat that, or you can become a jumble of nerves. Lots of ways are mentioned here, to help you stay cool and calm, while enjoying your own life too.
Need to Re-motivate Myself
After facing a personal battle for a long time, a time comes when you get tired of it all. This is the time for you to re-motivate yourself, so you don’t lose this battle. It can be any situation in your life, Currently I’ve been battling with cancer for over a year now, so I need fresh motivation. What about you? I’m sharing some ways I’ve found are working for me.
It is time to accept the fact that some people prefer lives as bachelors. Being single is not a crime, and must be accepted by the society as such. Too many girls are pushed into marriages which are horrific, only to avoid remaining single. This isn’t fair.
Caregivers of Cancer Patients
So far, I’ve written about the cancer patient. Since I’ve been one. Yet, I specially want to write about the caregivers, now. Because I’ve been that too. From the moment you heard about this deadly disease, to any time during the caring of the patient, you know it isn’t going to be easy. Usually, cancer …
Our Coping Strategies.
A coping strategy is an action that one resorts to, when faced with an unpalatable situation. Something that you find unbearable, but still have to bear it for a time, which seems too long. It maybe just half an hour or months and years. So then, you find some activity to do, to help you …